when we are home and hanging out in the living room, i am usually in my arm chair. our little ledger often wants to join his dad by hanging out on that chair too! if i'm not trying to get him to stand up on his own, i let him sit next to me and just chill out. his hands were bored, so i gave him this little burp cloth to play with, and boy did he love it! he played with it, gripping it and feeling it, right up until the instant he fell asleep... which was about five seconds later.