then off we went to go see randy. these marriage counseling sessions are really a lot of fun. we get the chance to talk about some big stuff in a structured environment and really dig in. most of the stuff we have discussed before, but its quite helpful to have someone there to guide the conversation and challenge us in different areas. also, he gives us tons of material that we get to go over with just the two of us afterwards. its been good to talk through everything and has helped us grow deeper and closer.