tonight i am going to a 'white elephant' christmas party. im a bit worried. ive never been to one of these types of parties, so i dont really know what to bring. do i go out and buy something or am i supposed to find something around the house? what if i bring something that i think is crappy, and it turns out it really is crappy? thats the problem, i dont know the caliber of the gifts were are expected to bring, so i dont know if ill be way off one way or the other. screw it, ill just wrap up a box of soap.